This stuck with me throughout the day.
Whenever I had one of those fights, I wound up feeling empty.
Shadowboxing is a good gig for me because it means I'm working things out. I can entertain the merits of right and wrong as long as I’m not angry or becoming numb toward myself and others.
In my experience, numbness counts as a good thing only in a dentist's chair, so it's best I liberate my mind.
Granted, to grow, I've got to have faith in my ability to find solutions. But whether I'm wrong or right only matters when I make that choice, and then it's on to the next choice, all while it's impossible to be right or wrong in all ways through what we call time and space. That's the consciousness I'm trying to share. And I know it's impossible to prove right and wrong because that relies on fission and identities. In arguments, everyone loses. Sometimes, I substitute the word fusion for understanding. Being energy not of I and them. InterBeing.