Part of dealing with phobias is processing them with friends, family, professionals, and, in time, the phobia itself. The important thing is you are on the path; you are aware and actively engaged in the process, as indicated by your sharing this piece. Caution is normal and healthy, and phobias are common, sometimes necessary, but can be irrational based on teachings and experience. All species are cautious and develop fears. Nevertheless, it's all part of our survival instinct, so I go with wanting to feel safe. Small steps. You got this!