Hi Jenny, I feel that question too. I think 'I love' is a concept that eludes most people and that's elementary in contrast to what interbeing would mean to them. There's no I in that relationship or that's my understanding. I don't know. I sense my interconnectedness with all people and things and can verbalize that it's love. I haven't figured out how I go to that shared consciousness and then describe it as an I. For now I can improve myself and believe it improves the world. I can love and it will create love in the world.